Be Able to Choose Your Thoughts



Hello everyone,

Thanks for stopping by today!

I wanted to do a reminder post about how important it is to think happier and uplifting thoughts.

So here are some quick do’s and don’ts for your thoughts:


thank others who are helping you.

repeat positive affirmations on a daily basis

encourage yourself by saying, “you CAN do it!”

look in the mirror and say nice things to yourself

put some of your earnings into tithing

read more uplifting books and articles


wake up with a complaint

judge others based on their looks

watch the news (it’s filled with fearful tactics)

blame your family for your short-coming’s

think small of yourself

There have been times when I would hear troubling stories from a friend or relative. At first, it’s hard to come up with the right things to say, especially when you know that they’re in such a vulnerable spot. I usually listen with an open ear and an intention that after all of this passes, only good will manifest into their lives.

For me, I usually say the truth and what I feel about the situation. Then I figure a plan of action which usually requires some affirmations and a change of thought pattern. Overtime, if they DO remember to choose positive thoughts, their life can become significantly better. It’s a habit that must be formed just as it is to brush your teeth every day. If you don’t do it every day, you’ll simply forget to do it.

Not being able to help or encourage someone is tough, especially if it’s a person that I know and love. However, I do believe in timing and that all realizations and mind-clarity will come at a certain time and place. For every person on this planet, certain situations can happen at any given time. We don’t have a specific timeline that shows when this or that will happen, but I do believe that we can shape those situations from being detrimental into a learning experience.

I am reminded every day that our thoughts literally unveil our future. I am an example of that because I saw how my life changed from thinking negative thoughts in the morning to positive thoughts in thoughts in the morning. Before, I’d wake up and the first thought was a either a complaint about having to wake up too early or how awful it will be at work that week. Those negative thoughts are immensely harmful for your own well-being and it lets the Universe know that you are unhappy, ungrateful and not deserving of the many blessings that life has to offer. So chose the better thoughts, always.

My thoughts and prayers go to the victims of the Oklahoma tornado and for all people suffering from natural disasters. Much peace to you and your loved ones and you’re in our thoughts.




6 Replies to “Be Able to Choose Your Thoughts”

  1. Good post! I do believe that positive thoughts are the fuel for prosperous outcomes. However, it can be very discouraging when things don’t go your way. You know what they say about high expectations. Keep up the good work.

  2. This is an excellent and timely reminder, Kimbundance! I’m pretty good at thinking positive thoughts, but I REALLY appreciate the extra nudge to be more diligent first thing in the morning. What a fantastic way to get the day started off on the right foot… and draw more positive things throughout the day.

    Loving the look and feel of your blog!


    1. Hi Janet!

      Yes-the first positive thought in the morning has helped me tremendously! It changes my mood and helps reveal positive emotions throughout the day.

      Thank you for the warm compliment =) you’re so kind.

      Talk again soon!

  3. We have to watch our thoughts closely all the time. For me if negative thoughts come up I simply observe them then make a conscious choice to let them go, and I’ll switch to something positive. The thoughts we think are creating our reality, I really believe that!! Eric

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